THE SUNDAY SERMONETTE – Forgiveness and Reconciliation. (Originally published February 5, 2023)

Ever been hurt or betrayed by someone you love? A friend or a family member? You might choose to keep a safe distance from that person, fearing that rekindling the relationship would again put you in harm’s way. Regardless, you should forgive and not allow your heart to overflow with bitterness, which, like scalding cancer, can eat away at the marrow of your being.

However, reconciliation is a bit more complicated. Doing so will bring the offender back into your world. Reconciliation is risky because there’s always the possibility of being hurt or betrayed again. Reconciliation is also tricky because it takes time—sometimes a lifetime. The road toward reconciliation can be bumpy and filled with potholes. And there’s no guarantee that your journey on that road will end in peace and happiness. But at least you can say you tried.

Forgiveness? Reconciliation? Do they seem impossible? Any journey begins with the first step. And your first step should be to ask God for help. Help to forgive. And help to start your journey toward reconciliation. Ponder this and go forth.